My yoke is easy, and my burden light. (Matthew 11:30) 
              While the image of a yoke was familiar to Jesus’
 audience, we modern readers may not be able to relate so easily. A yoke
 is made for two, like a team of oxen. When oxen are young, they are 
taught to pull together when hitched to the yoke. When one ox tries to 
go one way and the other a different way, they experience the pain of 
pulling against the yoke. The harder they fight it, the worse it gets.
So in one sense, we can say that the yoke punishes and burdens the 
oxen. But when both are going in the same direction, it actually makes 
their work easier. Usually one ox takes the lead and sets the direction,
 while the second ox learns how to follow. As they learn the positive 
and negative effects of the yoke over time, they discover how beneficial
 it can be.
This helps us understand Jesus’ saying that being yoked to him 
lightens our burdens. That’s the way a yoke is supposed to work! It 
teaches us to let him set the course. It teaches us to follow the One 
who has yoked himself to us in a covenant of love. We also experience 
what happens as we try to go our own way. We see how fighting God’s lead
 causes us pain. As Paul understood in Acts 26:14, by kicking “against 
the goad” (a tool used to drive oxen), he only hurt himself. But when he
 followed Jesus, he was far more peaceful—and far more fruitful!
Because we are humans, we are designed to learn through trial 
and—sometimes painful—error. That may sound harsh, but we can be 
confident that Jesus is extremely patient. He never stops loving us and 
trying to lead us. He knows that we will become more docile to his 
leading as we experience the wonderful effects of following him. He is 
confident that we will learn.
Yes, Jesus’ yoke is easy—because the One who leads us is walking 
beside us in the yoke. He shares all of our burdens. He invites us to 
enter into his rest. All he asks is that we follow his lead.
“Jesus, I want to learn your gentleness and humility as I walk with you. Teach me to move in step with you and your Spirit.”
from wau.org 
 
